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Are you a good woman or just a beautiful woman who confuses the two. I consider myself both, however, I wasn’t always, but I have learned over the years. Many women think to be a good lady, involves shopping, cooking, and cleaning, well not many men will agree and neither do I. Reason being is because some men are domesticated as well and some are better at it than women. So allow me to share my Top 10 Characteristics of a Good Woman and if I leave any out, feel free to share. Not in any particular order.
Forgiving. It’s difficult to be a part of any relationship and not have a forgiving heart. To hold onto pain is to hold anger in your heart, so how can you love or be a good woman, with an unforgiving heart. A forgiving heart is necessary since we know men make mistakes. I’m not speaking of those who like to sleep around or men who abuse women. I’m talking about common mistakes in relationships like maybe he came home too late and didn’t call. Maybe he forgot it was your birthday or your anniversary as those are situations that warrant forgiveness. Also, if your man cheats, and you decide to stay with him, the ultimate goal is to forgive him, not punish him, otherwise, end the relationship, because you both will be miserable.
Listener /Knows when to be Quiet We all know women have got to have the last word as well as we always have something to say, well most of us. So here’s the thing, when your man is talking, be quiet and listen, don’t interrupt him, listen attentively and respond respectfully. Choose your arguments carefully and of course, speak when spoken too. When you know you are wrong, just hold your tongue and apologize. The one thing that will drive any man crazy is a woman’s mouth and the lashing of her tongue. Be gentle; your tongue is not heavy, so you should be capable of holding it.
Faithful. No need to elaborate too much on this one. But, no man wants a cheating or disloyal woman. When a woman cheats, more than likely he will leave. The thought of another man touching his woman, is a no, no. So ladies, if you feel the need to cheat, just leave, be single. Not to mention that’s a sign of not being ready for commitment.
Supportive. Men have dreams just as women do and they need support, maybe his dream is not yours, but a good woman would help him, whether he fails or not. It’s not all about him supporting you in the relationship;
Patience. A patient woman is one who can wait for her man when he says “he will take care of it” Now, I’m not that great at this one, but hey I’m not perfect. At any rate, no man wants a woman who rushes him or is always in a hurry, or cant’ wait a few moments or day or two to get something done. Also, a patient woman understands nothing happens on her accord.
Motivator. Some men appreciate a woman who can motivate him towards success, not only that; some men need a push here and there to give them a kick-start in areas where they may not be as strong. Encourage your man to reach for the stars. Do not degrade him of project your fears onto him or refuse to support his dreams because you don’t see it for you.
Driven. I cannot speak for all men, but I know most men love a driven woman. She has a purpose in her life and will not allow anything or one to stop her. She is far from lazy, and her ambitious drive adds to her sexiness. Her man knows she will get things done.
Respectful. No man wants a rude woman, this relationship will end quickly. Learn to respect your man’s wishes, thoughts, dreams, and ambitions. If you disrespect the man you say you love, he will eventually disrespect you. Learn to humble yourself and diffuse situations that you may readily be tempted to lash out.
Confident/ Secure. A confident woman is a certain lady as she will not accuse her man of doing everything under the sun. Her self-worth leads her to a stable mind, and with that, she knows it would be his loss if he betrays her. She also does not need to question his every where-about since she has a life to lead herself. She is sure of her role as well as being an amazing woman. She will not cause unnecessary stress to herself or her relationship on pretenses and a wandering mind.
Sexually Inclined. Every man wants a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets. She has no problem with taking her sexual relationship to great heights with her man. She will rock his world in every sexual way imaginable, leading to a nose wide open. She is not ashamed to express her sexual appetite and explore new sexual adventures. She is a sexual Goddess.
In essence, there are much more characteristics that defines an amazing woman. However, these are the ones I thought were important. A beautiful woman is easy to find, but a good woman is not all that easy. A pretty face and a thin waste will only attract a man who wants sex. But a woman who presents with the mentioned characteristics will attract a man who can appreciate her. If you want an amazing and great man, then you need to present your amazing and great self.
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