Have you ever met someone who appeared to be cold-hearted, harsh, or inhuman? I have, and I thought the person was just bitter. Well, a person with low EI comes off the same way as they lack empathy.
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Have you ever truly seen your man, I mean naked, emotionally naked?
Have you ever seen beyond his physical being and looked into his soul?
Has he given you the opportunity to see his fears, insecurities, pain, or the self behind the ego?
Have you ever seen the depths of your man as he reaches the depths of your body?
His pain, fears, anger, jealousy, and insecurities are really the beauty beneath his physical body.
The beauty that calls for him to trust you and share his deepest secrets.
As he cries and lays his head upon your breast and wishes for you to nurture him as he longed for it for many years from his mother.
The security that was stolen from him as a little boy and now he’s a man with the same fears and insecurities.
His strong arms hold you gently and tightly as he just wants to feel your warmth and security.
You rub his head and assure his safety, the safety of his heart that was once discarded.
He is beautiful and strong as he cries and reconnects with his little boy’s pain.
He is beautiful as he withdraws and emotionally clams out of fear you might not understand.
He is a man.
A man in touch with his feminine energy and not afraid to be judged or accused of being a bitch.
He is a man.
A wounded man, who never healed from the wounded boy.
He is a man.
A man who trusts you, his woman, to understand, have compassion and love him for who he is.
He is a man.
A man who once lived in fear and until he felt your love, he can now live.
He wants to heal, but he needs to know he can count on you to support him and not judge him.
He opens up and shows you the beauty of a wounded man.
The pain deep down in his soul that has prevented him from loving and trusting you the way you deserve.
He’s a wounded man, but he’s a loving man.
He loves you, but his pain is deeper than you can imagine.
Hold him, love him, empower him, cry with him, and never degrade him.
He is a man, OUR man, the man who will protect and die for you.
Cherish him, encourage him and, let him be.
He’s wounded, but he’s beautiful as he allows you to see the true depths of his soul.
He removes his Ego and allows you to see his true self.
The pain he suffers, the fears he faces, the insecurities he lives with and the jealousy that scares you.
Have patience with him as he is a man, a wounded man, in need of real love and compassion.
The Wounded Beautiful Man
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I experienced all forms of abuse as a child, and teenager so it was easy for me to accept abuse as an adult. In one of my intimate relationships, I suffered mental and verbal abuse, was always put on the back-burner and disrespected. However, this man told me he loved me, and since I was born into those conditions, I accepted the ill-treatment. The behaviors you attract and accept are at the subconscious level of your mindset as no-one wants to experience abuse. I hear many people say “He or she needs a slap or two to believe it’s love,” that is sad to say, but it does hold some truth. It’s not that women or men like the slaps or shoves; it’s just they are conditioned to accept those behaviors. People who have experienced abuse and have not received coaching or therapy does not understand love. I was guilty of this, but with personal development, I recognize that I connected abuse with love. I didn’t understand love without being disrespected, cheated on, verbally abused and etc… I realize the difference today because, after my husband, I know love exists, and abuse has no place in my life today or ever.
Those who we accept into our lives are a reflection of who we are. If we harbor ill feelings about ourselves, we may pick partners or significant others that reflect this image back to us. If we are willing to tolerate adverse treatment from others, it is possible that we also operate similarly. If you are an abuser or a recipient, you may want to consider how you treat yourself. What sorts of things do you say to yourself? Do thoughts such as “I’m stupid” or “I never do anything right” dominate your thinking? Learning to love and care for yourself increases self-esteem and makes it easier to embrace healthy relationships and deny unhealthy relationships.
Some signs of equating abuse with love or NOT-understanding love
• You accept abuse, emotional, verbal, physical
• Expecting specific behaviors, i.e., Name calling, hitting, aggression, constant chaos
• You provoke your partner intentionally looking for a negative response
• You feel a need to argue
• You are incapable of living in peace with your mate
• You replace harmony with arguments
• You say he/she loves you even after they hit you
• You push him/her away
Signs of a Healthy Relationship
• Maintain and respect each other’s individuality
• Maintain relationships with friends and family
• Have activities apart from one another
• Able to express yourselves to one another without fear of consequences
• Trust each other and be honest with each other
• Have the option of privacy
• Resolve conflict fairly
Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship
• Feel pressure to change who you are for the other person
• Feel worried when you disagree with the other person
• Feel pressure to quit activities you usually/used to enjoy
• Pressure the other person into agreeing with you or changing to suit you better
• Arguments are not settled fairly
• Attempt to control or manipulate each other
• Have no common friends, or have a lack of respect for each others’ friends and family
In essence, love begins and ends with you, so if you don’t love yourself, it will be difficult to attract love. Remember, you are what you attract as what’s in your soul is in those souls of the people in your space. Thank you for reading as I look forward to reading your comments. Please share with your friends and family and help me heal the masses. We need it.
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